I think it’s important here to separate the difference between what’s happening inside the game level to your Character, and what’s happening outside the game world to the Player.
From a Player standpoint, it’s perfectly acceptable to kill someone in the Wilds and take their stuff. The game rules allow it, it’s a well-known part of the Wilds, there is meant to be risk.
From a Character standpoint, or I guess a “role playing” standpoint, obviously by definition if you are a Bandit, killing an “innocent” person in the Wilds, you are not being nice. You are committing a crime. You are breaking the law.
It’s totally fine from a role-playing, Character standpoint, to not like it when that happens. To say, “Orrbain is an outlaw! He has broken the law!”. It’s fine to dislike that, to ostracize an orangered-named person and not take them on a dungeon run.
But, again, that’s where the line has to be drawn. It’s not okay to then go outside the game, to the forums or Discord, and say, “Riley is a jerk who I hate because he plays a bandit in-game!” And send me harassing messages or anything like that. Riley is not breaking the law, or the rules. Riley is just playing the game.
I think in VR sometimes those lines get blurrier a lot faster than they do in a normal MMO, and that’s something as a community that we need to work through.